Tuesday, January 13, 2009

...meant to be...

If there’s an activity in a chat messenger other than gossip and file sharing, that would be status watching. Your friends’ statuses sometimes get to be so interesting that you can’t help but buzz them what’s with their cheesy, mushy and inviting lines.’some things just happen… like they are meant to be’….

Destiny does not necessarily engage us on romance. We can stumble upon destiny as we meet a total stranger. Eventually, more stranger things will happen and will end up, or should I say will start, on a good relationship. And when the universe conspires, ‘meant to be’ becomes ‘meant for each other’.

Think of a person now… Someone who is close to your heart. There’s already a connection between you and that person even before the time you first interact with each other. An unknown common thing or two that later you’ve discovered or will discover as the relationship blooms. Perhaps, it’s a line through another person. Or both of you had been in the same radius at the same time but on that point, it was not the right place and not the right time for a relationship to start.

We are separated and connected by and for a purpose.

Two complete strangers will endlessly run on circles but will only coincide if and only if one will serve its purpose to another. Quoting an episode from an afternoon television series, his or her purpose is either to love you or to hurt you. I believe that if time would arrange a meeting of two persons earlier than what is destined to happen, the persons involved won’t experience the climax of events - to be fully loved or to be fully broken. We are destined to experience the best and also the worst to be better.

But be warned. Destiny is not only about union of two souls. Unfortunately, fate is also about detachment. Yet, separation is not always the last turn of the fate. Sometimes, when the purpose has already been served, the destiny of the relationship now lies between these persons. Time will come that universe turns against you and seems separating you from the person you’ve already loved. But what is so hard in holding on if you’ve already won half the battle as you’ve touched his or her hands for the first time.

Chance and choice are not mutually exclusive. There are times that we are given a chance to have our own choice……

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